This last week in class we were talking about the Brother of Jared and his experience in preparing to cross the sea as he had been commanded. We went over 3 different ways that the Lord answered the prayers of the brother of Jared, and how they still apply to us tonight. I had never payed close attention to, or noticed, this before.
The brother of Jared had 3 problems he was seeking guidance on: no air in the barges he had built, no light, and no way to steer (Ether 2:19).
First, the Lord answers his question about how to have air to breathe on the journey. He gives the brother of Jared step by step instructions as to what he can do. At times, this is how the Lord answers our prayers. We feel as we are being guided miraculously each step of the way.
After the Lord's instruction was followed, the Brother of Jared returned to Him and asked about the light. It was dark in the barges and they could not see a thing. They were enclosed and had no sunlight as you would on a normal ship, and they could not have a fire (for obvious reasons). When he went to the Lord and asked about the light, the brother of Jared was asked "What will ye that I should do that ye may have light in your vessels?" The Lord gave him agency to choose how to go about it. The brother of Jared then had to come up with something, and then he worked hard to obtain the stones he did (in finding and preparing them) and he then took his idea to the Lord. Sometimes the answer to our prayers will be "you decide." And that doesn't mean we do whatever we please, but it means that we need to carefully study it out and put in the effort, make a decision, and then take that to the Lord to receive confirmation that that is a good thing to do. (Ether 2:23; 3:1-6).
The third thing the brother of Jared sought guidance on was how to steer. The Lord's answer? Don't worry about it - I've got it. Trust in me (Ether 2:24). There are some things that are out of our control that we are told to not worry about. This is something that I was talking with my sister about just a couple of weeks ago. For me, this can be the hardest thing - it is definitely easier said than done. I feel like I should worry about it and that for some reason worrying shows that I care to receive an answer - but that is not the case. Worry is connected with fear. Fear is the opposite of faith and trust. But God sometimes asks us to just trust Him and allow Him to guid things to go where they need to be.
These are each things worth studying, pondering, realizing and understanding. As we recognize the ways that God is answering our prayers, we will be able to have greater patience through the process and have the ability to keep going, regardless of the wait or the answer.
At times the Lord instructs us more directly, sometimes He tells us to not worry, and other times He expects us to use our agency that He has given us. Each are different ways to help us grow at various stages of our lives and for our benefit. God knows what is best for us - we need to have faith in Him. He will get us across the big sea that currently is before us to a place He has prepared for us.